I see the focus on the one gift and undermining the actual Scriptures by omission or errant reading memory and the like as typical modern political strategem causing doubt in the "system" and in this case cynicism and doubt about the history of discipleship recorded in the New Testament. This person is not sowing wheat but is sowing tares. He disguises himself as suffering from unrequited love, but he says he was a pastor? He should consider staying in his backyard.