I wasn't sure "whataboutism" was an actual word. So, I looked it up in Merriam Webster, and sure enough! There it was! Notwithstanding, you seem to have hooked for yourself a prized red herring. Congratulations! Not only have you achieved that, but you've also successfully jumped on the Cynic's Bandwagon in front of the Agnostic Parade (or is it the Atheist's) You've dodged the question you yourself raised, and now you want to wash your hands of it. No offense taken. That's okay. It's just human nature. If you want, just take your ball and go home...

Nevertheless, I don't think you are a waste of time. Neither does God.

Just a thought and not for nothing, "For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that everyone who believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him." John 3:16, Berean Standard Bible.