Okay, my response to more of your judgmental insults:

I'm 74 years old and been married to my first wife for 43 years. I worked a 40+hour per week job for almost 40 years and lesser jobs after that Employer left town. I was a Union Departmental Steward, paid for my own Night School to become the best steward that I could. I was elected Chief Steward, then Local Union President, negotiating Contracts with several different Employers. I have 5 children and 7 grandchildren. I have done the finish work on our house's addition. I planted and maintained fruit trees, shrubbery, and a veggie & flower garden in our yard for enjoyment and supplemental provision for our household. My kids and I built a shed together to store all of our equipment... I don't mean to brag, since all these things are what loads a man is supposed to carry... but now, what about you? PLease tell me what gives you the right to judge me?