So, you are now an apostle who, like Paul, have been knocked off your high horse and now have greater wisdom than that apostle? Pseudo-psychology is now wiser than the wisdom Paul received from the Holy Spirit? You do remember the apostle Peter's observation about Paul's writings, don't you?

"He writes the same way in all his letters, speaking in them of these matters. His letters contain some things that are hard to understand, which ignorant and unstable people distort, as they do the other Scriptures, to their own destruction." - 2 Peter 3:16, NIV.