"The problem with...{fill in the blank}...is that to many people are greedy and hateful. They are controlling too."

I edited your comment with "fill in the blank" to illustrate my point that each and every group - including yours - have too many people who are greedy and hateful and controlling. People aren't as free as they think they are, and by the by, you aren't showing much love, either... maybe some judging, maybe some lack of experience or too much bad experience... I can't really tell.

How did you arrive at your safe space anyways?