The trouble with dressing sexy and attractive is that it is sexy and attractive. Makes it difficult for men. (Please don't say "That's men's problem," because that is men's problem, actually.) It is a natural response and men dressing immodestly raises the converse problem with you ladies... that is, we can tend to look at each other in the confinement of the physical realm in the shallowness you might find offensive. If women don't want to to be thought of as sex objects don't dress to be sexy. Anyways, Mr. Foster seems to agree with you, if you read the composition once more.

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