You some kind of prude or something? You are monagamous, I suppose. You never were turned on looking at women and tdwelling on it a bit too much?

Never mkind all that, God didn't want Israel to have a King in the first place. What has that to do with it?

Well, kings or Sheikhs in that culture had harems and it was an expected tradition - a prestige thing. The one man/one woman precept fell by the wayside when sin entered the picture.

But here is where God's love comes in: But the love of God

The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. - 2 Peter 3:9,NIV.

However, I think you stumble over God's Justice and Judgments... Let me try to put it to you this way: Would you want to be forced to live in a neighborhood with a serial rapist/murderer?

God is goiong to completely erase what is on the whiteboard and actually, He is going to start all over with a new one. (See the last chapter of Revelations,)